Dealing with infidelity

My wife and I have been with Joseph Rajagopal’s counselling sessions for about 3 months. We were suffering tremendously from my infidelity as we did not know how to deal with it. In the beginning, we were searching for which counselling centre and which counsellor to go to as there were many choices on the web. We finally decided to go to SCC and selected Joseph to be our counsellor after reading testimonials on Joseph.

Joseph has taught us a lot about love and how to nurture and enrich it. We have found a new lease of life with love for each other growing day after day. I will always ask myself; “What is the next thing I can do for her?”,”How to connect with her better today?”, “What can we both do to enjoy and love each other?”.

He played an important role of a neutral party as he listened to our grievances and sorrows. I feel that a neutral party plays an important role in allowing us to share each other’s viewpoints without getting into a heated dispute. Joseph has done a great job in mediating our differences and guide us to a common ground. He is the torch to our blindness in the dark.

I would like to sincerely thank Joseph and the centre for being a “marriage saviour”. Thank a zillion!!

– Client K, 2019

Joseph has taught us a lot about love and how to nurture and enrich it. We have found a new lease of life with love for each other growing day after day.

Joseph has done a great job in mediating our differences and guide us to a common ground. He is the torch to our blindness in the dark.

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Thank You Note

I’ve laughed and cried in those sessions with you. I was angry and hurt and ashamed, but most importantly, I’ve healed. Thank you for helping me cope with the pain and also how to see things differently.

Powering Up to Face Upcoming Challenges

I may not be 100% there yet, but I certainly feel more empowered to navigate and face upcoming challenges knowing that I am well supported. Thank you Joseph for navigating life challenges with me at my darkest hour.

Finding a Safe Space and Overcoming Unhelpful Thoughts

I came to SCC hoping to find a safe space to share my thoughts and feelings surrounding the difficulties I was experiencing. Rafeah was able to create that safe space for me where I felt comfortable to open up and trust her.

Overcoming a Past Relationship

After the break up, it was even harder to accept reality and how things had turn out leading me to getting disturbed sleep and losing my focus in a lot of things. To be honest, at that moment, crying, feeling helpless, not wanting to accept any help (feeling that I am not even worth helping) and committing suicide was even on my thoughts.

Restoring a Marriage

We had gone from having cold wars and fighting, to being able to have discussion about proper parenting of our daughter and how to address her developmental needs.

Overcoming Anxiety and Depression

I’m happier than I was a couple months ago. I feel less afraid of the constantly-changing world and how I thought I needed to fix everything that was wrong and evil going on all the time, if not I was just wasting my life. I have a lot of gratitude for Rafeah because she sat with me through all of this, and helped guide me towards a lot of insight and revelations about myself.

Looking Forward to Creating The Life I Desire

Now, I have the ability to do things I could never have done previously since my mind is clear without unbearable amounts of repressed grief, anger and extreme feelings of injustice clouding my justice and hampering my ability to focus and prioritize.

[Testimonial] Uncovering Issues and Resolving Them

I felt overwhelmed at first but step by step she guided me through and I overcame my negative thoughts and got rid of toxic people in my life who I previously thought were not affecting me at all.

[Testimonial] Discovering My Own Identity and Understanding Myself

I have gained a better understanding of myself and learned to be better than who I was previously after attending the counseling sessions. I'm very grateful to the counsellor for everything which he has done to help us as we wouldn't have made much progress without him.