{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Counselling Services by Singapore Counselling Centre","provider_url":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e","author_name":"lg","author_url":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/author\/lg\/","title":"Dont fall into the trap of competitive parenting - Spore Counselling Centre","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"gwxuHzKo7K\"><a href=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/dont-fall-into-the-trap-of-competitive-parenting\/\">Don\u2019t fall into the trap of competitive parenting<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/dont-fall-into-the-trap-of-competitive-parenting\/embed\/#?secret=gwxuHzKo7K\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Don\u2019t fall into the trap of competitive parenting&#8221; &#8212; Counselling Services by Singapore Counselling Centre\" data-secret=\"gwxuHzKo7K\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"Competitive parenting might be the norm for some and it is amplified in a sense in Singapore, thanks to the \u2018kiasu\u2019 mentality many of us have too. Dr John Lim, director of Singapore Counselling Centre, adds that parents should avoid training their children just to beat others merely in grades.","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/20180119_comparent-495x400.jpg"}