{"id":10100,"date":"2026-05-09T13:46:29","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T05:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/?page_id=10100"},"modified":"2026-05-09T13:47:10","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T05:47:10","slug":"self-harm","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/self-harm\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-Harm"},"content":{"rendered":"<div  style='padding-bottom:10px; ' class='av-special-heading av-special-heading-h2    avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_hr  avia-builder-el-first  '><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Self-Harm<\/h2><div class='special-heading-border'><div class='special-heading-inner-border' ><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div  style='height:25px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-1  el_after_av_heading  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">If you are hurting yourself, or thinking about self-harm, we want you to know that you are not alone \u2014 and that reaching out, even just to read this page, takes courage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">Self-harm is not attention-seeking. It is not a failed suicide attempt. For most people, it is a way of managing emotional pain that has become too intense or too overwhelming to bear in any other way. It can bring a temporary sense of release, control, or relief when everything else feels out of control. Understanding that does not make it safe \u2014 but it does make it human.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">Self-harm can take many forms, including cutting, burning, hitting, or other ways of deliberately hurting the body. It can also be less visible \u2014 such as restricting food, substance use, or putting yourself in harmful situations. Not all self-harm looks the same, and not all of it leaves marks that others can see.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">People who self-harm often describe:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"[li_&amp;]:mb-0 [li_&amp;]:mt-1 [li_&amp;]:gap-1 [&amp;:not(:last-child)_ul]:pb-1 [&amp;:not(:last-child)_ol]:pb-1 list-disc flex flex-col gap-1 pl-8 mb-3\">\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>Feeling overwhelmed by emotions<\/strong> that seem too big, too intense, or impossible to express in words<\/li>\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>A sense of numbness or disconnection<\/strong> \u2014 and using physical pain as a way to feel something, or to feel real<\/li>\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>A need for control<\/strong> in situations where everything else feels chaotic or unpredictable<\/li>\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>Shame and secrecy<\/strong> \u2014 hiding what is happening, feeling unable to tell anyone, and carrying it alone<\/li>\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>A temporary sense of relief<\/strong> followed by guilt, shame, or a return of the same difficult feelings<\/li>\n<li class=\"whitespace-normal break-words pl-2\"><strong>Wanting to stop<\/strong> but not knowing how to cope without it<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">Self-harm is not a phase to push through, and it is not something you should have to manage on your own. The behaviour itself is often a signal \u2014 that something deeper is asking to be heard and addressed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">At Singapore Counselling Centre, our counsellors provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk about what is happening without fear of shock, criticism, or being told simply to stop. We understand that self-harm has been serving a purpose \u2014 and our work is to help you understand that purpose, process what lies beneath it, and develop other ways of coping that don&#8217;t put you at risk.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">You deserve care. And you deserve a way through this that doesn&#8217;t hurt you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\"><em><strong>If you are in crisis or feel that you may harm yourself seriously, please contact the Institute of Mental Health&#8217;s crisis helpline at 6389 2222 (24 hours) or the Samaritans of Singapore at 1767 (24 hours).<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n<div  style='height:25px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><section id=\"text-8\" class=\"widget clearfix widget_text amr_widget\"><h3 class=\"widgettitle\">Appointment Booking<\/h3>\t\t\t<div class=\"textwidget\"><p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thank you for choosing the Singapore Counselling Centre (SCC). 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