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News Features and Commentary<\/h3>
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Topic: Dealing with Work Burnout and Fatigue<\/h3>\n

\u201cYou can talk it through with your family members and their experiences with their colleagues. From there, you can discover what works best for you when maintaining work relationships.\u201d<\/em> – John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

As we are nearing the end of the year, we may be experiencing the aftereffects of the cumulative stress from the past few months. In this article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, Dr John Shepherd Lim, share tips on how you can rewire your negative thinking in such situations and ways to manage burnout and fatigue in various scenarios in the workplace. Read more about it here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>

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Topic: Young PMETs taking long breaks from work<\/h3>\n

\u201cWith the increased awareness about mental health and burnout, young people today are more attuned to the signs of burnout and take proactive steps to address it.\u201d<\/em> – John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

There has been a trend among young PMETs to take extended breaks, lasting months or even years, in order to reduce effects of burnout or to explore other job opportunities. In this Straits Times article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares about the possible reasons for this phenomenon and the benefits and downsides to taking a break in between jobs. Read more here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>

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Topic: Youth Scam Victims Seeking Help in Counseling<\/h3>\n

\u201cHaving their money and pride taken away from them against their will, victims may begin to believe they have no control over their life and future,\u201d \u2013 <\/em>John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

Many youths often find themselves able to navigate online spaces effectively, adapting well to digital developments. As such, this lends them confidence that they will be less likely to be victims of scam. However, the youth are just as susceptible to scams as any other age group. In this Straits Times article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares about the effects of scams on youth and what they can do to manage the guilt and shame that may arise.\u00a0Read more here!\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div><\/p>\n

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Topic: Moving Forward After Infidelity<\/h3>\n

“It is important for the parents, while in the midst of repairing their relationship, to check in with their children and provide them a safe place to communicate their emotions and needs using terms that the child can understand<\/em>\u201d \u2013 John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

Extramarital affairs can take a huge hit on marriages and the family. How then, can families move forward after the infidelity of a spouse? There are many challenges and concerns that a family has to navigate amidst other distressing emotions. In this article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim highlights the common obstacles that families face and the important role that parents play in ensuring their children’s wellbeing as a result of extramarital affairs. You can read the article here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Dealing with Infidelity in Marriages<\/h3>\n

“As these young children may not be able to articulate what they experience with their peers, their bottled-up emotions can be carried into adulthood, forming unconstructive thoughts and beliefs when unprocessed.<\/em>” \u2013 John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

The topic of extramarital affairs has been the source of contention following recent news. Dealing with the infidelity of a spouse can undoubtedly bring intense amounts of stress, anxiety, and feelings of betrayal. Furthermore, this can be a tricky situation to navigate, given how personal and nuanced this subject matter is. It is at these moments that marriages and families dealing with infidelity require the most support. In this article by TODAY online, our chief well-being officer, John Shepherd Lim, reminds us of the repercussions of extramarital affairs, and how we can best support affected families. Read more here!<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Mental Health Among Youths in Singapore<\/h3>\n

“Some youths may not feel comfortable disclosing their mental health needs to their parents and hence may deter them from seeking the help that they need,<\/em>\u201d -John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

As youths face mounting pressure from transitioning between stages in life and juggling various obligations, the conversation around mental health remains important for this demographic. Despite experiencing symptoms of mental health conditions, some youths may still be deterred from seeking professional help. In this TODAY online article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares some reasons why seeking professional help doesn’t always come easy and ways to encourage our youth. Find out more\u00a0here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Lending Support For Job Scam Victims<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“Most importantly, we have to be present and encouraging towards job-scam victims, such that they can gradually learn to forgive themselves for their mistake.”<\/em>\u00a0– John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

Job scams have become more rampant in the past few years. Falling victim to a job scam can cause an immense amount of stress, shame, and guilt for an individual. In these moments, victims require support and empathy more than ever. In this article from The Business Times, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, provides some insight on how to be present and provide better support for job scam victims. Read more about it here!<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Setting Achievable New Year’s Resolutions<\/strong><\/h3>\n

“The important thing about any kind of goal setting is making your goals specific and bite-sized.”<\/em>\u00a0– John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

Setting new year resolutions for ourselves can be an empowering and promising task. Achieving those goals that we set for ourselves, on the other hand, can be more challenging, especially with other commitments occupying our time and energy. In this Channel News Asia article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, provides some advice on how to form achievable goals for ourselves and to be more effective in attaining them. Read more about it here!<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Mental Wellbeing of Youths<\/h3>\n

“However, there are some people who may not want to confide in friends or family.\u00a0This is because they fear being judged or burdening their closed ones.”<\/em> \u2014<\/span> \u00a0<\/em>John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

There has been a rise of youths seeking mental health support, but it can still be tough to reach out for help despite struggling with various stressors coming into adulthood. In this TODAY article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, Dr John Shepherd Lim, advises on alternative sources of support, such as seeking professional help from counselling. Read more about it here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Sex Education in Singapore<\/h3>\n

“Having heart-to heart conversations with parents on sensitive topics is often better than leaving children to learn from online sources.”<\/em> \u2014<\/span> \u00a0<\/em>John Shepherd Lim<\/p>\n

It can be difficult to begin broaching the topic of sex with children despite the perceived importance of sex education. In this Channel News Asia article, our Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, discusses what can be done to take an age-appropriate approach towards having a meaningful “birds and bees” talk with children. Read about it here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Mental Wellbeing in Youths<\/h3>\n

“One of the things I think we can do more is to make a person feel that it is quite normal to not feel good all the time.” \u2014 Rafeah Buang<\/em><\/p>\n

Youths often struggle with their need for acceptance and validation. Through an interview with wekaypoh, Rafeah Buang, a counsellor at SCC, explored the ways in which communities can be more supportive of youth mental health.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: The Good, Bad and Ugly of TikTok<\/h3>\n

“If we seem to be performing other tasks at our normal capacity, our TikTok usage should not be a concern. Otherwise, users could consider setting a daily limit on TikTok screen time through the app\u2019s settings.” <\/em>\u2014<\/span> John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

Looking at the meteoric rise of TikTok in Singapore, users and experts alike are left wondering what has driven its popularity. More importantly, what are the potential up- and downsides? In The Big Read by Today, Dr John Lim, SCC Chief Wellbeing Officer, chimes in on some psychological challenges that individuals may face with excessive TikTok usage. Read here<\/a> for the full coverage!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Burnout within the Hustle Culture<\/h3>\n

“[The normalisation of heavy workloads] can make it hard for people to vocalise their struggles with burnout, as they might compare with the drive and pace of life that others seem to be coping well with, and fear being seen as weak.” \u2014<\/span> John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

Hustle culture refers to the mindset that one must prioritise work and constantly keep busy to advance their professional career. Yet, such work ethics can make one more susceptible to severe emotional and physical fatigue, otherwise known as ‘burnout’. To address this, SCC Chief Wellbeing Officer John Shepherd Lim provides some insight for Today into why burnout is exceedingly common within the hustle culture. Read all about it here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: New Years Resolution<\/h3>\n

“At the end of the day, goals should work for us. We should not feel enslaved to the goals we\u2019ve set at the start of the year. Should we find ourselves feeling discouraged and defeated, perhaps it is time to relook our goals and set ones that are achievable.” \u2014<\/span> John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

Setting new year’s resolutions can help us to improve and grow. However, consistently chasing these goals over the course of an entire year can be challenging, and falling short of them may be detrimental to our mental wellbeing. In this article by Today, SCC Chief Wellbeing Officer John Shepherd Lim shares some tips on how to set realistic new year’s resolutions and successfully achieve them. Read more here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Generation COVID<\/h3>\n

“Though growing up in isolation may allow them to be more self-reliant, it is also important for these youth to maintain a healthy level of sociability” \u2014<\/span> John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

Growing up during the pandemic has been rough for Singaporean youth, as their social, academic and professional lives have been derailed by the coronavirus. In this article by The Straits Times, SCC Chief Wellbeing Officer John Shepherd Lim outlines the pros and cons of being a member of “Generation Covid”.\u00a0Read more here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Holiday Blues<\/h3>\n

\u201cReflection often brings about mixed feelings: The excitement and anticipation of starting a new year, and grappling with unaccomplished matters in the past year.\u201d \u2014<\/span> John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

The weeks leading up to the end of the year end can be one of the most stressful times, with many of us experiencing a case of the “festive blues”. In this article by CNA, SCC Chief Wellbeing Officer John Lim shares with us scenarios where we may experience the blues and what we can do to manage such emotions. Read more here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Mental Health in the Workplace<\/h3>\n

\u201cSCC founder John Shepherd Lim said it is not uncommon for people facing burnout or chronic stress to experience a drop in work productivity and engagement, which will directly impact organisational outcomes and performance.\u201d \u2014 John Shepherd Lim, as quoted in The Straits Times<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The pandemic has brought about many changes, one of which being the heightened awareness of mental health and its importance on employee wellbeing. In this article by the Straits Times, SCC\u2019s Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, sheds light on the current mental health trends in light of the COVID-19 pandemic and the importance of establishing workplace support programmes to protect the mental health of employees. Read more here<\/a> to find out.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Marriage & Infidelity<\/h3>\n

“Legally, any act of disloyalty is considered infidelity, for as long as the marital relationship has not legally been nullified.\u201d \u2014 Kenny Chen, professional counsellor at Singapore Counselling Centre<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Is it considered cheating if you enter another relationship amidst divorce proceedings? In this article by Mothership, SCC counsellor Kenny Chen shares common reactions of spouses who were cheated on and the recommendations for couples who are going through a divorce. Read here<\/a> to find out more!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Marriage & Infidelity<\/h3>\n

\u201cWhile the temptation to cheat might have increased due to the rise in conflicts during the pandemic, along with ready accessibility to dating apps, the desire to stray is a multi-faceted one.” \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by CNA, SCC’s Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares the reasons why men and women cheat, as well as the increasing prevalence of emotional affairs due to advances in technology. Read more here<\/a> to understand the factors that contribute to emotional cheating, and how it can be avoided.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Workplace Harassment<\/h3>\n

\u201cIt is important to note that when it comes to harassment, a strong indicator lies in how the individual makes you feel.” \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/em><\/p>\n

It can be difficult to draw the line between sexual harassment and seemingly accidental or one-off incidences. In this article by CNA, SCC’s Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares about the red flags of sexual harassment that people usually overlook and what are steps we can take in the event we are victims of workplace harassment, and how we can respond when we feel uncomfortable with the actions or attitudes of others towards us. Read more here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Home-based Learning<\/h3>\n

In light of the growing number of COVID-19 cases, Primary Schools have returned to home-based learning. What are some struggles students face with home-based learning, and how can parents support them? In this article by The Women\u2019s Weekly, SCC\u2019s Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, shares practical tips for parents to help their child in their academic and social needs during this period of HBL. Read more here<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Teachers’ Mental Health<\/h3>\n

“We hope that these recommendations will also help parents and students to know of the behavioural changes that they can make in their everyday (interactions) that would really support the teachers in becoming more mentally well.” \u2014 Karen Soon<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The COVID-19 pandemic has been hard on all of us, but it has been especially hard on this particular group of unsung heroes – our teachers. In this article by The Straits Times, SCC\u2019s Project Lead in SCC\u2019s first initiative, The Teachers\u2019 Series, Karen Soon, shares more on the issues and struggles teachers are facing in the face of the COVID-19 pandemic, as well as some recommendations as suggested by teachers to help improve their wellbeing. Read more here<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Toxic Behaviour<\/h3>\n

\u201cWe are all guilty of toxic behavioural patterns from time to time, but the difference lies in how we respond to those who point those things out to us.\u201d \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s common to hear from our social circle about rants of \u201ctoxic\u201d behaviour as they share about the difficult relationships they have experienced. However, what if these toxic behaviours are displayed by our family and loved ones? In this article by Today, SCC\u2019s Chief Wellbeing Officer, John Shepherd Lim, sheds light on what it means to display \u201ctoxic\u201d behaviour and when to draw the line. Read more here<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Student Mental Health in light of the COVID-19 Pandemic<\/h3>\n

\u201cTo reduce the stigma among students, Mr Lim said that they must be convinced that seeing a counsellor is not a form of punishment but an opportunity for them to receive care and speak openly ab<\/span><\/i>out their troubles.\u201d<\/span> \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In light of the recent school tragedy, mental health is becoming more widely discussed in schools, yet a stigma remains: many students are concerned about how they will be viewed by their parents and peers for seeing a counsellor. In this article by Today, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim shares how the pandemic has intensified students\u2019 underlying issues and how we should see counselling in a more positive light. Read more <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Trauma and Suicide<\/h3>\n

“A traumatic event causes a ripple effect that can traumatise others beyond the community where the event happene<\/span><\/i>d.\u201d<\/span> \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The recent traumatic event at RVHS has greatly saddened us and we know that this is a very trying period for the students, parents and teachers of RVHS. In this article by The New Paper, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim offers insight into the ripple effect that a traumatic event can cause. Read more <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Importance of Self-care<\/h3>\n

\u201cIn the long run, self-care helps us to function from a place of wellness and altruism, as having our personal needs met gives us the capacity to fully devote our attention and resources to care for others and contribute to things beyond ourselve<\/span><\/i>s<\/span>.\u201d<\/span> \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by Channel News Asia, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim sheds light on the importance of prioritising one\u2019s self for our own wellbeing which ultimately allows us to impact others in greater ways than before. Find out more in the article <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>! <\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Importance of Communicating Boundaries during Online Dating<\/h3>\n

“With individuals looking to meet their partners online, boundaries and expectations need to be constantly communicated so that both parties can be respectful of each other’s time and emotional resources<\/span><\/i>.”<\/span> \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by the Straits Times, SCC\u2019S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim shares some advice on how to communicate expectations so as to ensure that time spent on dating platforms is meaningful and purposeful. Find out more in the article <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Pandemic Angst \u2014 Acknowledging Negative Feelings<\/h3>\n

\u201cRather than disregarding our negative feelings or invalidating it, it is about facing up to the reality of what is going on around us, while at the same time acknowledging that it is pointless to be bent on controlling uncontrollable thing<\/span><\/i>s.\u201d<\/span> \u2014\u00a0John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by Today, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim shares with us how the pandemic might be making us feel angrier lately, as well as some tips on how to deal with and reduce our pandemic angst. Read more <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Managing Differences<\/h3>\n

\u201cRather than being too assertive about what others \u2018should\u2019 be believing, a more helpful way out is to provide them with information to consider, then respecting their agency for choice on what they eventually decide to think and do<\/span><\/i>.\u201d<\/span> \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by Today, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer, Dr John Lim, shares with us some practical tips on how to approach a loved one with opposing beliefs, as well as preventing disagreements from going south. Read more <\/span>here<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Social Media & Self-esteem<\/h3>\n

\u201cIt is inevitable to experience some level of unhappiness or discontent, but a person\u2019s way of reconciling what they see online with how they view themselves is a process that differs from person to person, and eventually affects the degree to which social media alters their levels of self-acceptance and self-love.\u201d\u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In this article by TODAY, SCC’S Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim shares with us the reasons social media can affect our perspective of our self-worth so much, and what we can do to maintain our sense of well-being and self-esteem even as we use social media. Read more here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n

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Topic: Mental Health Stigma<\/h3>\n

\u201cRealistically speaking, the strategic awareness of mental health is still a growing area in Singapore… there are many who view mental health not as an illness that can be treated, but as a fundamental character or mental weakness.\u201d \u2014 John Shepherd Lim<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

In an interview with Homeground Asia, SCC’s Chief Wellbeing Officer Dr John Lim shared the importance of building a compassionate environment in the workplace so that employees will not be afraid to open up about their mental health struggles. Find out more in the article here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n