{"id":3197,"date":"2019-07-14T18:01:47","date_gmt":"2019-07-14T10:01:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/?page_id=3197"},"modified":"2021-04-21T18:31:28","modified_gmt":"2021-04-21T10:31:28","slug":"pet-loss","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/pet-loss\/","title":{"rendered":"Pet Loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex_column av_one_full  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_hr  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><p><div  style='padding-bottom:10px; ' class='av-special-heading av-special-heading-h2    avia-builder-el-1  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  '><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Pet Loss and Bereavement<\/h2><div class='special-heading-border'><div class='special-heading-inner-border' ><\/div><\/div><\/div><br \/>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><p>All of us deal with grief differently. When faced with a pet loss, the emotions can be overwhelming and we will grieve. It is important to give yourself time to process these feelings and heal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-3201\" src=\"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"380\" height=\"216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2.png 947w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2-300x170.png 300w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2-768x436.png 768w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2-705x401.png 705w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_2-600x341.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 380px) 100vw, 380px\" \/>After the loss of the pet, it is natural that it will take time to accept and realize the loss. You may find yourself reaching to prepare your pet&#8217;s food or feeling its absence when you look at the empty bed or cage. These can trigger emotional responses and it is normal. To manage these emotions, one may think that they should immediately dispose of the pet&#8217;s items. This may not necessarily help the healing process as you may wish to look at them in the future. Instead, you may choose to store the items out of sight.<\/p>\n<h4>Grief<\/h4>\n<p>There are 5 stages of grief and individuals go through these stages differently.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Denial<\/li>\n<li>Anger<\/li>\n<li>Bargaining<\/li>\n<li>Depression<\/li>\n<li>Acceptance<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-3202\" src=\"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"381\" height=\"227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1.png 946w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1-300x179.png 300w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1-768x458.png 768w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1-705x420.png 705w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Singapore-Counselling-Centre_Pet-Loss-Bereavement_1-600x358.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 381px) 100vw, 381px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some individuals may oscillate between two to three stages, while some may not go through all the stages of grief. Some well-intentioned people may tell you, &#8220;It&#8217;s just a pet. You can always get another one,&#8221; but they do not understand the bond that you had with the pet. The pet was your pillar of emotional support, was there for you through the many months and years, and showered you with pure and unconditional love.<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself time to deal with the loss. It is important to surround yourself with people who are willing to listen to you as you talk about your feelings and what you are experiencing. Prolonged grief can lead to depression and this highlights the importance of not bottling up these feelings. If you need someone to talk to, you can <a href=\"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/appointment-booking\/\">meet our counsellors<\/a> and by talking to them, you can understand and reconcile this loss.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n<div   class='hr hr-default   avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/CreativeWork\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>Appointment Booking<\/h3>\n<p>Thank you for choosing the Singapore Counselling Centre (SCC). Please\u00a0refer to the booking form below to book your appointment with us. We look forward to seeing you soon!<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/api.whatsapp.com\/send?phone=6563395411\">Booking form under maintenance. If you would like to book an appointment (or had booked an appointment via our booking form from 18 April 2021 onwards), please whatsapp us at +65 63395411\u00a0 for confirmation.<\/a><\/h3>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-3197","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Pet Loss - Counselling Services by Singapore Counselling Centre<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"If you have recently experienced a pet loss and have difficulty coping with the grief, you can speak to our counsellors. 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