{"id":3978,"date":"2020-04-29T11:32:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T03:32:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/?p=3978"},"modified":"2020-04-29T11:37:33","modified_gmt":"2020-04-29T03:37:33","slug":"looking-forward-to-creating-the-life-i-desire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/looking-forward-to-creating-the-life-i-desire\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking Forward to Creating The Life I Desire"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex_column av_two_third  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding first  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_third  avia-builder-el-first  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><h3>Looking Forward to Creating The Life I Desire<\/h3>\n<p>I started attending therapy at SCC on 16 January 2019.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve experienced relentless, emotional and physical abuse at the hands of classmates for 6 years to the extent where I believe they will laugh and be amused if they forced me into taking my life. Mainstream education failed me on repeat so often it almost seemed premeditated. I had nobody who understood me at all and even those who sympathized with me couldn\u2019t grasp the depths of my suffering. My parents were utterly ignorant by choice, abusive and negligent. I was completely, utterly alone in one of the unkindest times of anybody\u2019s life and only held onto a dream of revenge on all who wronged me, and all the while I felt like God created me to be a plaything of cruel forces and to be an example of how depraved, superstitious, cowardly and selfish society is.<\/p>\n<p>So I suffered from:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Parental emotional neglect, abuse<\/li>\n<li>People who thought evil remedied boredom<\/li>\n<li>Rapid society and consistent educational system failure<\/li>\n<li>A relentless sense of loneliness<\/li>\n<li>A relentless frustration at being consistently misunderstood<\/li>\n<li>Being unable to find anybody who knew how much I suffered deep inside until I gave up and wanted to escape reality<\/li>\n<li>Jealousy and contempt for \u201cnormal\u201d people who did not suffer and got to have a \u201cnormal\u201d life especially including those who once abused me and then acted like I was the one who was wrong for not overcoming their blatant selfish evil<\/li>\n<li>A sense of being worthless, useless and being revolting inflicted after decades of such abuse<\/li>\n<li>Being unable to function in \u201cnormal\u201d society<\/li>\n<li>Consistently being unable to make good decisions due to a constant surge of barely repressed anger ready to explode<\/li>\n<li>Being taunted to end my life by people who would find it amusing<\/li>\n<li>Feeling like a failure and consistently doomed to fail at everything<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Before SCC I have tried many self help books, methods, church and sunk much money into attempts and courses that tried myself. I will not name them, but nothing helped because they were geared to fast fake magical temporary feel good results. These means were not ready to truly assist somebody who lived life like a war refugee and really take the time, care, dedication, commitment and effort needed to help somebody with my issues. In fact they have proven to be nothing but scams built on shortcuts, wastes of time and money. Nevermind those who had good intentions but not the skills or ability.<\/p>\n<p>I would like to thank Joseph for extraordinary patience and persistence in assisting me with the \u2018how\u2019 where so many others have failed, moving relentlessly from technique to technique and method to method to help me cope with my pain and overcome my issues.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I have the ability to do things I could never have done previously since my mind is clear without unbearable amounts of repressed grief, anger and extreme feelings of injustice clouding my justice and hampering my ability to focus and prioritize.<\/p>\n<p>To be able to have a proper, warm relationship with friends and family who matter. My relationship with my parents finally exists instead of being an absent placebo of frustration. (Please don\u2019t duplicate how this was achieved)<\/p>\n<p>And not be hamstrung or handcuffed by memories and lingering past trauma. I enjoy more emotional stability now and am no longer a slave to anger or need for revenge.<\/p>\n<p>While on communication, things have improved though there still clearly is still some work to go. (Or people can get better at English instead of being content with being inferior.)<\/p>\n<p>In addition, there are opportunities, career and income development chances and skillsets that I would not have been able to utilize and benefit from if I was still trapped by all my issues this failing society has forced upon me.<\/p>\n<p>While I am not \u201cthere\u201d, I can look forward to creating the life I desire as time goes on and enjoying all the things that I feel were stolen from me against my past, including the right to experience and take responsibility for suffering of my own doing instead of via the imposition of the will of others over mine.<\/p>\n<p>To be able thrive even though the world is as dark as I claim but has its bright spots as well.<\/p>\n<p>Thank God, SCC, the friend who recommended I go for therapy, my parents for supporting me through therapy and Joseph.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Client R, 2020<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n<div  style='height:30px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-last '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p><\/div><div class=\"flex_column av_one_third  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding   avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_two_third  el_before_av_hr  \" style='border-radius:0px; '><section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p><span class=\"m_508975733786659906s2\"><span class=\"m_508975733786659906bumpedFont20\">I would like to thank Joseph for extraordinary patience and persistence in assisting me with the \u2018how\u2019 where so many others have failed, moving relentlessly from technique to technique and method to method to help me cope with my pain and overcome my issues.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n<div  style='height:30px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-5  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p>Now, I have the ability to do things I could never have done previously since my mind is clear without unbearable amounts of repressed grief, anger and extreme feelings of injustice clouding my justice and hampering my ability to focus and prioritize.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n<div  style='height:30px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-7  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section class=\"av_textblock_section \"  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock  '   itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p>Now, I have the ability to do things I could never have done previously since my mind is clear without unbearable amounts of repressed grief, anger and extreme feelings of injustice clouding my justice and hampering my ability to focus and prioritize.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div><\/p>\n<div  style='height:30px' class='hr hr-invisible   avia-builder-el-9  el_after_av_one_third  el_before_av_heading '><span class='hr-inner ' ><span class='hr-inner-style'><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div  style='padding-bottom:10px; ' class='av-special-heading av-special-heading-h3    avia-builder-el-10  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_postslider  '><h3 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >More Testimonials<\/h3><div class='special-heading-border'><div class='special-heading-inner-border' ><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<div   data-autoplay=''  data-interval='5'  data-animation='fade'  data-show_slide_delay='90'  class='avia-content-slider avia-content-slider-active avia-content-slider1 avia-content-slider-odd  avia-builder-el-11  el_after_av_heading  avia-builder-el-last  '  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Blog\" ><div class='avia-content-slider-inner'><div class='slide-entry-wrap'><article class='slide-entry flex_column  post-entry post-entry-8554 slide-entry-overview slide-loop-1 slide-parity-odd  av_one_third first real-thumbnail'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-overcoming-depression-and-anxiety\/' data-rel='slide-1' class='slide-image' title=''><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"495\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/hands-reaching-out-help-1-495x400.jpg\" class=\"attachment-portfolio size-portfolio wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/hands-reaching-out-help-1-495x400.jpg 495w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/hands-reaching-out-help-1-845x684.jpg 845w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" \/><\/a><div class='slide-content'><header class=\"entry-content-header\"><h3 class='slide-entry-title entry-title '  itemprop=\"headline\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-overcoming-depression-and-anxiety\/' title='[Testimonial] Overcoming Depression and Anxiety'>[Testimonial] Overcoming Depression and Anxiety<\/a><\/h3><span class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2023-09-08T16:59:04+08:00\" >8th September 2023<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >I have been meeting with Joseph for over 12 months, and while the regularity of our meetings has steadily decreased, owing to the successful work we have conducted together, his continued assistance and support is a constant source of reassurance, helping me continue to improve my quality of life and keep my mental health in check.<\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/hands-reaching-out-help-1-scaled.jpg<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1707<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>2560<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='logo' itemscope itemtype='https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/SCC_Logo-Transparent-1.png<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"author\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Person\" ><span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span><\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2020-04-29T11:32:09+08:00\" >2023-09-08 16:59:04<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"dateModified\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/dateModified\" >2023-11-14 10:59:27<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/mainEntityOfPage\" ><span itemprop='name'>[Testimonial] Overcoming Depression and Anxiety<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/article><article class='slide-entry flex_column  post-entry post-entry-8334 slide-entry-overview slide-loop-2 slide-parity-even  av_one_third  real-thumbnail'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-my-counselling-experience-with-joseph\/' data-rel='slide-1' class='slide-image' title=''><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"495\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wooden-block-has-emoticon-customers-assess-their-satisfaction-with-service-copy-space-advertising-images-isolated-yellow-background-clipping-path-495x400.jpg\" class=\"attachment-portfolio size-portfolio wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wooden-block-has-emoticon-customers-assess-their-satisfaction-with-service-copy-space-advertising-images-isolated-yellow-background-clipping-path-495x400.jpg 495w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wooden-block-has-emoticon-customers-assess-their-satisfaction-with-service-copy-space-advertising-images-isolated-yellow-background-clipping-path-845x684.jpg 845w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" \/><\/a><div class='slide-content'><header class=\"entry-content-header\"><h3 class='slide-entry-title entry-title '  itemprop=\"headline\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-my-counselling-experience-with-joseph\/' title='[Testimonial] My Counselling Experience with Joseph'>[Testimonial] My Counselling Experience with Joseph<\/a><\/h3><span class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2023-06-16T10:03:21+08:00\" >16th June 2023<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >Joseph not only helped me improve my emotions, but he also helped me to change my perspective on life. I am now able to approach situations in a much more positive and constructive manner, thanks to his guidance.<\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wooden-block-has-emoticon-customers-assess-their-satisfaction-with-service-copy-space-advertising-images-isolated-yellow-background-clipping-path-scaled.jpg<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1707<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>2560<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='logo' itemscope itemtype='https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/SCC_Logo-Transparent-1.png<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"author\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Person\" ><span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span><\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2020-04-29T11:32:09+08:00\" >2023-06-16 10:03:21<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"dateModified\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/dateModified\" >2023-11-14 10:58:27<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/mainEntityOfPage\" ><span itemprop='name'>[Testimonial] My Counselling Experience with Joseph<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/article><article class='slide-entry flex_column  post-entry post-entry-8144 slide-entry-overview slide-loop-3 slide-parity-odd  av_one_third  real-thumbnail'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-grief-and-anger-management\/' data-rel='slide-1' class='slide-image' title=''><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"495\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/solitude-copy-women-sorrow-casual-lonely-495x400.jpg\" class=\"attachment-portfolio size-portfolio wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/solitude-copy-women-sorrow-casual-lonely-495x400.jpg 495w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/solitude-copy-women-sorrow-casual-lonely-845x684.jpg 845w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" \/><\/a><div class='slide-content'><header class=\"entry-content-header\"><h3 class='slide-entry-title entry-title '  itemprop=\"headline\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-grief-and-anger-management\/' title='[Testimonial] Grief and Anger Management'>[Testimonial] Grief and Anger Management<\/a><\/h3><span class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2023-03-31T14:15:36+08:00\" >31st March 2023<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >I was introduced to Joseph by a friend when I was going through grief and anger management issues. Throughout my entire counselling journey with Joseph, he has been very patient, caring, and has taught me many ways to cope with the issues I am facing. <\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/solitude-copy-women-sorrow-casual-lonely-scaled.jpg<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1707<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>2560<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='logo' itemscope itemtype='https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>http:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/SCC_Logo-Transparent-1.png<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"author\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Person\" ><span itemprop='name'>Alicia Chee<\/span><\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2020-04-29T11:32:09+08:00\" >2023-03-31 14:15:36<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"dateModified\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/dateModified\" >2023-11-14 11:01:11<\/span><span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/mainEntityOfPage\" ><span itemprop='name'>[Testimonial] Grief and Anger Management<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/article><\/div><div class='slide-entry-wrap'><article class='slide-entry flex_column  post-entry post-entry-7456 slide-entry-overview slide-loop-4 slide-parity-odd  av_one_third first real-thumbnail'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-overcoming-family-violence-and-restoring-a-marriage\/' data-rel='slide-1' class='slide-image' title=''><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"495\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/jonathan-duran-f5J-wk9EoUA-unsplash-scaled-e1660623340785-495x400.jpg\" class=\"attachment-portfolio size-portfolio wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/jonathan-duran-f5J-wk9EoUA-unsplash-scaled-e1660623340785-495x400.jpg 495w, https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/jonathan-duran-f5J-wk9EoUA-unsplash-scaled-e1660623340785-845x684.jpg 845w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" \/><\/a><div class='slide-content'><header class=\"entry-content-header\"><h3 class='slide-entry-title entry-title '  itemprop=\"headline\" ><a href='https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/testimonial-overcoming-family-violence-and-restoring-a-marriage\/' title='[Testimonial] Overcoming Family Violence and Restoring a Marriage'>[Testimonial] Overcoming Family Violence and Restoring a Marriage<\/a><\/h3><span class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2022-08-16T12:16:52+08:00\" >16th August 2022<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >It was started couples of months ago, when my son\u2019s tempers began to get worse and intolerable to his wife and 2 young daughters. Both his wife and 2 daughters were living in fear whenever his temper occurred at home. \u00a0Very fortunately, I was able to contact your Counselling Center on time, otherwise, it can become a police case issue and a worst nightmare to the family.<\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/jonathan-duran-f5J-wk9EoUA-unsplash-scaled-e1660623340785.jpg<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1593<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>1708<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='name'>angelinazoeylim<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='logo' itemscope 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class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2022-05-11T15:25:38+08:00\" >11th May 2022<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image.png<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1163<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>1000<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='name'>angelinazoeylim<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='logo' itemscope 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class=\"av-vertical-delimiter\"><\/span><\/header><div class='slide-meta'><time class='slide-meta-time updated'  itemprop=\"datePublished\" datetime=\"2022-04-29T17:26:17+08:00\" >29th April 2022<\/time><\/div><div class='slide-entry-excerpt entry-content'  itemprop=\"text\" >Poems written by a client during her counselling journey with our Professional Counsellor, Joseph Rajagopal.<\/div><\/div><footer class=\"entry-footer\"><\/footer><span class='hidden'>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='url'>https:\/\/scc.sg\/e\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/thought-catalog-OJZB0VUQKKc-unsplash-scaled.jpg<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='height'>1707<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span itemprop='width'>2560<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<span class='av-structured-data'  itemprop=\"publisher\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Organization\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" 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