What is Psychotherapy?

Psychotherapy (sometimes called “talk therapy”) is a general term that describes the process of treating psychological distress or mental health disorders by talking with a psychiatrist, psychologist or counsellor. 

Psychotherapy is based on the belief that people with psychological issues can improve their quality of life by learning more adaptive ways of perceiving, evaluating, and behaving [1]. It aims to assist individuals to first recognise, then modify unproductive thought and behaviour patterns.  The effectiveness of this change is often reliant on a strong therapeutic alliance between therapist and client, as that would facilitate open and honest communication which is vital to working through difficult thoughts and behaviours [2]. 

Types of Psychotherapy

Psychodynamic Therapy

Psychodynamic therapy is based on the assumption that unmet needs and unresolved conflicts from childhood  subconsciously influence an individual’s choices, feelings and thoughts as they mature. Therefore, the goal of psychotherapy is for individuals to explore and understand significant events that have happened to individuals in the past, and uncover the memories or experiences that have shaped their perspectives and world views. During psychodynamic therapy sessions, therapists work with clients to resolve internal psychological conflicts. The therapist guides people through reframing perceptions of their past or come to an acceptance with their imperfect past, improve self-awareness, and adopt healthier coping habits. This is done with the aim to gradually increase clients’ levels of wellness, and live freer in the present, for the sake of a more fulfilling future [3].

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

Through exploring the link between thoughts, emotions and behaviour, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)  is used to treat a variety of mental health disorders and aims to alleviate distress by helping patients to develop more adaptive cognitions and behaviours. Thoughts shape what a person does and how a person feels and reacts; CBT focuses on identifying and changing dysfunctional patterns of thought and behaviours. It is the most widely researched and empirically supported psychotherapeutic method [4].

Some Contemporary Adaptations of CBT:

Dialectical Behavioural Theory (DBT) focuses on helping clients to [5]:

  1. be more motivated to change unhelpful behaviours, thoughts and emotional responses,
  2. accept and acknowledge the current state of their own behaviours, other people, and their environments without judgment,
  3. learn productive skills and habits to enhance behavioural capabilities; and 
  4. adapt skills learnt to create a life they want for themselves.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is an action-oriented approach to psychotherapy that stems from traditional behaviour therapy and CBT. It aims to improve functioning and quality of life by increasing psychological flexibility (i.e., being able to act effectively), to live in line with one’s values, while accepting the presence of distressing or interfering thoughts, emotions and bodily sensations [6].

Person-centred Therapy (PCT)

Humanistic therapies are based on the assumption that people have both the freedom and the responsibility to control their own behaviour—that they can reflect on their problems, make choices, and take positive action. Therapists generally take on a client-centred approach, where counsellors create a supportive environment for their clients through emphasising their concern, care and interest rather than steer their client toward a particular direction. Clients are seen as experts of their problems and resources, and this enables them  to explore their identity, emotions and experiences freely. The direction of the therapy is hence very much dependent on the client. Although humanistic therapies differ in their details, their central focus is always expanding a client’s self-awareness, so that the client obtains clarity on their values, attitudes, and choices [1]. 

How does Psychotherapy work?

Therapy Formats

  • Individual therapy

    Involves working one-on-one with a psychotherapist.

  • Couples therapy

    Involves working with a therapist as a couple to improve how you function in your relationship.

    • This type of therapy is designed for couples who are working to strengthen their relationship when they are  experiencing a problem or rough patch. During the sessions, couples are encouraged to share and talk through their problems in a safe and non-judgmental  environment.
    • Problems generally faced includes: 
      • Cheating; extramarital affairs 
      • Financial problems
      • Domestic abuse (including but not limited to emotional, physical and sexual abuse)
      • The need to improve mutual communication and understanding
  • Family therapy

    Centres on improving the dynamic within families and can include multiple individuals within a family unit.

    • This type of therapy is designed to help families come to terms with or overcome a problem. It’s particularly useful when the actions of an individual or a group of people are causing hurt or harm to other family members. These problems could include the following:
      • Divorce
      • Substance use disorder
      • Domestic abuse (including but not limited to emotional, physical and sexual abuse)
      • Death
      • Grief
      • Adolescent issues
      • Mental health disorders or disability
  • Group therapy

    Involves a small group of individuals who share a common goal.

    • This type of therapy allows a group of people who are going through a similar problem to share, discuss, and relate their experiences in a group setting with the help of a therapist. One of the key benefits of group therapy is the idea that individuals are not alone in their problems because of the knowledge that others are going through a similar experience. This gives group members a community to offer and receive support, as well as practice skills learnt within the group.
    • Group therapy can help with things like the following:
      • Substance use disorder
      • Depression
      • Medical problems
      • Relationship problems
      • Grief
      • Anger Management 
      • Stress Management

Effectiveness of Psychotherapy

Benefits

Psychotherapy has been found to be equally or even more effective than pharmacological treatment for some cases. This is due to the fact that skills learnt during psychotherapy sessions are life skills that last beyond the course of treatment in managing mental health concerns. As such, the benefits of psychotherapy tend to last longer than psychopharmacological treatments and rarely produce harmful side effects [7]

Some common benefits of psychotherapy include [8]: 

  • learning to be aware of and overcome negative automatic thought patterns that could be inaccurate and/or harmful. The therapist guides the individuals to challenge these thoughts and understand its effect on their feelings and behaviour, as well as adopt skills to change self-defeating patterns.
  • identifying ways to cope with stress and developing specific problem-solving strategies.
  • developing socio-emotional awareness and communication skills with the aid of a therapist
  • mindfulness and relaxation techniques, such as meditation and breathing exercises.

What to Expect from Psychotherapy

At the first psychotherapy session, the therapist typically gathers information about you and your needs. You may be asked to fill out forms about your current and past physical and emotional health. It might take a few sessions for your therapist to fully understand your situation and concerns and to determine the best approach or course of action. To facilitate this process, it is most helpful to consider what you hope to achieve out of the therapy.

The first session is also an opportunity for you to get to know your therapist to see if his or her approach and personality are suitable for you. Don’t hesitate to ask questions anytime during your appointment. If you do not feel like the first therapist is a good fit, you can consider another therapist. Having a good therapeutic alliance will make your sessions more productive and effective. 

FAQ

As a starting point, think about your needs and what you want to achieve out of the therapy process. Research and shortlist a few therapists that you feel can address the issues you have based on their specialisation. You may also approach a family doctor who can refer you to the relevant professionals. 

There are different reasons why one might need psychotherapy [8]:

  • Impacts from dealing with severe or long-term stress from a job or family situation, the loss of a loved one, or relationship or family issues.
  • Experiencing symptoms with no physical explanation: changes in sleep or appetite, low energy, a lack of interest or pleasure in activities that you once enjoyed, persistent irritability, worry, or a sense of discouragement or hopelessness that won’t go away.
  • A health care provider may suspect or have diagnosed depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, or other conditions or symptoms that may be interfering with your life, and recommend psychotherapy as a first treatment or to go along with medication.
  • You may be seeking treatment for a family member or child who has been diagnosed with a condition affecting mental health and for whom a health care provider has recommended treatment.

The most important factor that influences a successful therapy outcome is the therapeutic alliance, or the bond between client and therapist. Therapists and clients work collaboratively, so the right match is important to allow the facilitation of change and growth. Therapy sessions should feel like a safe space for you to explore and work out your thoughts, emotions and behaviours, and provide feedback based on your experience, and a therapist facilitates that environment. Good “chemistry” with your therapist is critical, so do not be afraid to voice out your want to change a therapist. The process of therapy may not be easy and occasionally uncomfortable when revealing one’s own thoughts/ vulnerabilities, or working on adopting new sets of skills and adapting to different sets of mindsets. So you want to work with someone who you will be comfortable opening up and listening to. 

Here are some red flags if a therapist is not a good fit: 

  • You feel judged for the values you hold or the life experiences you have 
  • You do not feel comfortable being honest and authentic 
  • Is too gentle or assertive for you — these are neither good nor bad traits, but each person responds differently to therapists’ personas and styles 
  • You feel that he/ she talks too much about himself/ herself without any therapeutic purpose 
  • You leave the session feeling lousy about yourself, without any actionable direction 
  • If he/ she encourages you to rely on him or her to get your needs met as opposed to guiding you to meet your needs independently (i.e., encourages dependency on the therapist.

These red flags might indicate a mismatch between treatment styles and what you are comfortable with. In those cases, it is okay to request for a change of therapist for your next session. That said, it is encouraged for you to be open about these with your therapist. Let them know during the session itself where possible what you find helpful/ unhelpful. Most therapists are open to adapting to your needs. 

References:

[1] Butcher, J., Hooley, J., & Mineka, S. (2013). Abnormal psychology (16th ed.)